I know what you’re thinking: Welp, it’s about that time again - time to list what I’m thankful for at the big family meal.
Well, you’re right, but we shouldn’t reserve ourselves to one season to give our thanks to God: we should acknowledge his grace and thank him every day.
When giving thanks we seem to forget that many of our blessings are in disguise. They are more than nice in-laws or a job promotion or the material items we have been blessed with. They are our hardships, our brokenness, our insecurities. As humans, we don’t like to recognize our idiosyncrasies that seem to have negative effects on our lives.
Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
Just being thankful for our joys is only half of what God had given us. God has given us more than obvious gifts. He uses all our experiences to shape us, to mold our consciousness into what he wants. We often forget to thank him for these blessings in disguise.
I think one of my biggest is living where I do. I go to a school where nobody has been exposed to real life. Katy, Texas is really a big, safe bubble for most kids, which is why parents love to raise their children here – they won’t have to grow up faster than they should. For a long time I was a participant in that utopia.
Through my parents’ work (one a dispatcher and another a music therapist turned music teacher) I have met many amazing people who had to face the reality of the world. Through their experiences and stories I have seen the growth that a person can attain. Their experiences taught me about life. Before I was even in kindergarten I knew what the real world was like. It’s not a bad thing - it just put everything into perspective.
For the greater part of grade school I covered up my difference from others by masking myself with humor - I’d joke about everything. But after seventh grade I realized that my difference was a blessing that kept me grounded and down to earth. It kept me out of trouble numerous times because I already knew what the outcome would be. Knowing that life wasn’t a fairy tale made me the person I am today. I always thought that this was a burden for a child, but now I thank God for this knowledge that has guided my decision making throughout my life.
Even though times are tough, God still uses those times to strengthen you, to make something out of them, to bring you closer to him. Trust in him and give thanks. He will never let you down.
Prayer: Lord, thank you for the life you have given me. Even though many see hardships as obstacles, I know you use them for my benefit. I know that through them I will get closer to you. Thank you for your blessings in disguise. Amen.
Written by Benjamin
The 12:12 Project is sponsored by Katy First United Methodist Church.